ITZZ TIME 4 NEW YEAR RESOLUTION

New Year's resolutions are back again. Time to make more promises to yourself and then break them within a month, right?

Every New Year's Eve millions of people make New Year's resolutions…then January happens. Just one week into January, many ppl New Year's resolutions are nothing more than a memory. The prospect for keeping a resolution  throughout the year are even more bleak.By the time we ring in 2013, 90 percent of New Year's resolutions will have been broken. 

There are many reasons why resolutions are broken, some major reasons are:-

•       We rely on motivation only. –Many ppl wishes 4 motivation 4rm frnds and family and lag self confidence. 

•         We only think big. - ppl only think in large terms that are often unrealistic – like losing lots of weight or making a major life change.

•     lack of determination -  ppl lack courage to face troubles and hardships.

The solution to avoid becoming a part of the failed New Year's resolution club isn't difficult .  If ppl wish 2 fulfill their resolution they can try the steps below,hope this might help you:-

•         Prioritize what you want to accomplish -  Pick your top three goals and focus on them

•          Reduce information overload -Be selective in what information you pay attention to in order to maximize time management.

•        Learn to say yes – face the troubles confidently  

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•        Don’t lose hope- hav patience, never lose heart.

Wish u advance HAPPY NEW YEAR 2012 and tak a proper "NEW YEAR RESOLUTION" 

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RADIATORS AND DRAINS

Frnds maybe you have all heard of this one before or may be haven't. I am nt talking about radiators and drains! not the variety of heat exchangers designed to transfer thermal energy from one medium to another for the purpose of cooling and heating. Nor the one that is an exit point for waste water.  I am talking abt types of people.

      I remember reading somewhere that v can classify people into 'radiators' and 'drains'. Radiators fill us with energy. We look forward interacting them. They leave us feeling really good about our self, and whenever you think of them, we look forward meeting them next. They r fun to be with, positive and full of life.They needn't necessarily be our frnds. They can be anyone around us. the only parameter for people to be classified as radiators is that when v finish interacting with them, we feel happy, positive and recharged.  

                Drains on the other hand, leave us feeling down. They may not say anything unpleasant but after talking to them we feel totally drained out. We r vaguely dissatisfied bt unable to put a reason to it. Drains might have talked very politely and pleasantly with us, but after interacting with them, we feel somewhat inadequate. Drains are not necessarily people whom v hate. they could be just anyone who leaves us feeling inadequate in a way that cannot be described. They can be also called as emotional vampires.

           Life is so short and so fleeting. It is entirely up to us to enjoy each moment. There will of course be moments when v feel sad, hopeless and unhappy. When that happens, it is time to pick up the phone and call the best radiator you know.

FRIENDSHIP INESTIMABLE RELATIONSHIP

Friends r inevitable part of lyf. There is a nice saying ,"every one has a best friend but only lucky ones r able to be in touch with them for their lyf time.There is no relationship in this world greater than friendship. we understand its importance after we become far apart from our dear ones. We miss the times we spend together, the jokes v share together,the comments which v pass on each other, the meals which v had together, the fun v had in malls,beaches,grounds etc. Those were the most beautiful moments of life which are hard to get back again. So i urge each and every reader pls love ur friends and pray to be in touch with ur friends. dedicated to all my dear friends who had given me some wonderful experiences and blossom my life with happiness....

Attitude makes difference not talent

When we look at others excellence we wish we would hav also possed the talent that they posses. Excellence is not about talent alone.Infact a major major part of excellence has nothing to do with the talent. In course of time after u go beyond a certain level ability or talent is most useless virtue u posses. Its what u do with that talent that matters. Here comes the word attitude which helps u .Beyond a point it’s the attitude which counts far far more than talent. Because talent breeds an igo and talent never solves problems beyond a point. In this era majority of young people extremely talent who the moment faced a roadblock don’t know how to overcome it. Because they never had the courage to struggle to succeed, they usually used their talent to succeed. I read an article in newspaper in Australian sports they don’t pick the people who hav never faced failure in their sports rather they pick the people who had faced some failure in certain point of time and bounced back again. Because those people has the experience of overcoming the failures in their profession.That is where ur attitude helps u.

                        What is excellence? Is it about being in the top 10% in ur work. Can talent take u that level, Is talent important when u get in the top 10%. Everyboby in the top 10% would have extraordinary talent .here what u do with ur talent it counts. In India we r dazzled with talent. But we r still developing country. In hardships and difficult situation it’s the work ethic and attitude helps far more than talent. We hav many fine examples such as sachin tendulkar, dhirubhai ambani, ratan tata and the list goes on.. so attitude ,passion and devotion to ur job counts far far more than ability. Ability opens the first door it can open the second door but its not going to open the last door for u.