Believe in yourself

Very often, when we are faced with a difficult situation, we tend to turn to those we consider our closest friends for advice.

We weigh their words and very often act on them too. But I do believe that NOBODY is really 'qualified' to tell YOU, what will work and what will not work in YOUR situation. (I am obviously not talking about advice  on a particular skill set required to do a specific task)

The fact is nobody, (not your parents, not your best friend, not even your soul mate) is going to really understand what YOU, as an individual are going through. They are always going to tell you what they presume will work or not work, for your greater good.

But they truly aren't experiencing the exact same emotions that you are. They may say they understand and in fact they may believe that completely do, but truly they will never get it. Your dreams, your pain, your hopes, your emotions are truly yours alone.

Am I saying that you should never ask for advice? NO. We have much to learn from older folks who might have gone through a similar situation. Age does have its advantages after all.

But I think the best way would be to follow what your inner voice tells you. Spend some time alone. Write down what is bothering you. I have discovered that writing in a journal is truly a great way to give direction and expression to that inner voice of yours which often gets drowned.

Believe in yourself. You are definitely more awesome that you think. Yes, you can do it,
All you have to do is believe.

And take that one step at a time.

Always remember, the journey of a thousand miles begins with that single step. And the hour is always darkest just before dawn.

JUSTIFY YOUR LIVING

LIFE KEEPS SMACKING WITH SURPRISES. IT SOMETIMES PACKS US WITH FRIENDS, LOVE AND HAPPINESS BUT EMPTIES THEM WHEN WE NEED THEM THE MOST. IT’S NO BIG DEAL. NOT THAT WE CANNT LIVE WITHOUT THEM, BUT OUR ADDICTION TOWARDS PLEASURES MAKES US CRAVE FOR THEM. FOR A LAYMAN IT MAY APPEAR LIKE LIFE IS SNACTHING HIS HAPPINESS AND PLAYING WITH IT , BUT SURVIVERS TAKE IT ON THE OTHER WAY. THEY THINK THAT LIFE IS STRENGTHENING THEIR GRIP BY PUTTING THEM IN AWKWARD SITUATIONS AND THEY TAKE IT AS A OPPURTUNITY TO FIGHT BACK AT LIFE WITH A TOUGHER INSTINCT. AND THEY DO WELL. IT’S SAID THAT EVEN A DIAMOND CANNT SPARKLE WITHOUT RIGOROUS POLISHING. ONLY A HUGE SEASTORM CAN MAKE A SAILOR, HOW CAN LIFE BE SPARED FROM IT.

PEOPLE SAY THAT LIFE HAS NEVER BEEN JUSTIFIED FOR THEM BUT THEY DONT UNDERSTAND THAT LIFE NEVER DOES JUSTICE WITH ANYONE.IT SENDS US DIFFICULTIES TO FIGHTBACK AND TOUGHEN OURSELVES NOT TO GIVEUP AND START CRYING OVER LIFES MENANCES. ITS OUR FAULTS THAT WE CANT COPE WITH OUR FAILURES. EVERY ROAD TO OUR DESTINATION WILL OFFER US WITH PROBLEMS. IT WILL BE OUR CHOICE WHETHER TO STRUGGLE OR GIVE UP. HOW CAN WE SIMPLY CHOOSE THE EASIEST ALTERNATIVE AND BLAME OUR FATES. WOOERS CAN’T BE WINNERS. THAY WILL KEEP ON CRYING ON EVERY OPPURTUNITY THAT LIFE SENDS THEIR WAY, THINKING IT TO BE ANOTHER SET BACK AND IN THIS COURSE, THEY PASS THEIR ENTIRE LIFE, JUST WAITING FOR HAPPINESS TO COME THEIR FEET. GOD PROVIDES GRAINS TO EVERY BIRD BUT CERTAINLY DOESNT PUT IN THEIR NEST, SIMILARLY LIFE PROVIDES EVERYONE WITH OPPURTUNITY BUT IN THE FORM OF DIFFICULTY.

THIS LIFE IS THE MOST VALUABLE POSSESTION FOR EVERY INDIVIDUAL, SO WORTH IT..